Appreciation makes a difference. When someone is giving their heart & flesh but still not getting the results does not mean that their efforts are useless. Just like our parents, they worked hard for us & instead of appreciating their efforts we become stonehearted. Then the communication is reduced by their side also, but why? Maybe they felt less motivated that’s why their courage to connect gets decreased. We live very far from our motherland just to prove ourselves, just to prove that we can achieve something, something that is not great but something that our parents felt proud of. Sometimes we can not express our emotions or our loneliness in words. They keep reminding us about our worth, about the unconditional love they have for us. & again we get into the mute zone. I tried searching many ways to come out of that mute zone, then 1 day my friend told me about this amazing website Send Pyar Australia, I thought about giving it a try, & believe me I didn’t utter a word but my mom understood what I wanted to say. The Gift wasn’t important, but the feeling & emotions were priceless.
That day I learned something about human relations, you don’t have to hold it too tight in your fist, just hold a finger. Just like your Mum held yours when you were a toddler & trying to walk.
It has been 3 weeks since my mom has spoken to me. As is she was angry, she wanted to do give me my space as I asked her to do, the pathetic feeling of guilt was taking over my guts, I made her do it, I was the one who slammed her when she was calling me to ask about health and about my dinner. I said, “I am in a whole new country mom, our timings don’t match. I have a job to do; I’m here for my career.” That time I forgot about how she fought with everyone in society to send me to Australia for my career. Being a single parent, it was obvious to panic when I couldn’t receive her call at midnight.
I hammered Vinita’s head with questions. What should I do to make everything right; normal just like it was before I smashed it. She came up with this site, Send Pyar Australia. I was confused first, how this site gonna solve my issues with my mom? It was the biggest question. Then I started going through it & realized that it might help. Whilst I was going through the site I came across this Golden Pearl & Diamond Bracelet, I remembered as a kid I used to wear mom’s jewelry & when she mockingly asked me to return it, I used to reply that someday I’ll buy the same for her. She used to smile fondly, it’s time to bring that smile to her lips again. So first I checked about price; it was in my budget. I was not sure it will ship to my hometown
. So I checked again: they did ship to my hometown. I was on cloud nine by this thought. & I ordered.
The bracelet reached on time, carefully packed. That night I received one international call, when I picked, there was complete silence, not a single word was exchanged & we both understood. Some bonds are beyond the linguistic necessities. Thank you Send Pyar.
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