Gifts: Planning to Execution by Send Pyar

Christmas is around the corner, Start planning for gifts after all  #Gifting is also an #Art. You need to analyse each and every aspect of the gift. Learn this art with SendPyar Australia

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You don't need reasons to gift something to the someone. It can be the wedding gift or a birthday present or simple congratulations card.

A gift is the form of indirect communication, in which you don't have to exchange the actual words. Though it looks simple, believe me, it's not a piece of cake.

We have to plan it carefully, cause it ain't a moonwalk. first and most important step in gifting is the analysis of the receiver. if you don't have that much time to get into the details, you can always opt for the general category of gifts.

The beauty of surprise is that person should not have a single clue about it.In this step, you can take a help from another family member or close friends. Once we clear this stage & gathered data. We can start hunting.

Explore each & every option from the website. It might take some time but it's totally worth it. Weigh pros & cons,  payment option, vendor rating, reviews of the product as well as the vendor, safe payment gateways. etc etc....

Once your gift is reached in the desired condition and on time. You will feel like you have just defeated the sumo wrestler. Now you have learnt the Art of Gifting.

Bonds beyond Boundaries!

Being a single mom of 2 kids is not an easy job to do, especially when you have 2 totally different personalities wandering around you all the time. Both want your time and affection more than the other one, and it’s not a piece of the cake. Time really flews within a blink of the eye. Now my both the children are happily married, living with their spouses in 2 different countries and still want my time more than the other one, so travelling has been added to my routine.

It was my daughter’s turn so I was in Sydney with her and my son-in-law, while on the other hand, my daughter-in-law was expecting their first child. I was trying to book the ticket as the due date was approaching fast, but there were some issues with my passport and also with my health so it's getting delayed every time. My big boy was assuring me,”mom, don’t worry! Everything will be fine. I’m there for her. You take your time and please concentrate on your health.”

When did he grow up so fast, I have never seen this side of my son, I was getting restless, and whereas my daughter was checking for flights continuously she knew the storm within my mind.

And the big day arrived, Now I was a proud granny of the daughter of my son, He video called me to deliver the news, his eyes were welling up, I can see that he was missing me terribly, and when he took the camera near my little angel’s face, we couldn’t control our emotions. I just wanted to be there, to help her with the baby chores, after all, she was new to this and very naïve. I just wanted to tell her about the bathing of the baby and oil massage and everything I learned while managing my little monsters. Hopefully, my grand-daughter was not even close to them, she was so small, peaceful and her smile was to die for.

Sona (my daughter) understood my emotions and came up with an idea. We fired her laptop and logged in to Send Pyar Australia. She was going through each and every product on the site, after a heated discussion, we agreed on Himalaya Herbal Baby Care Kit in a Jute Basket and a Bunch of 6 Purple Orchids with 400gms Assorted Dryfruits. The ordering procedure was easy so we were done in no time. Now I was waiting patiently for the gift to be delivered.

I received a message that your gift has been delivered on time. I tried calling my son, but he didn’t receive my calls. Few days passed still no answer, I couldn’t sleep at all. The different thoughts were crawling into my head, “Maybe he is angry with me, maybe he didn’t like the gift and so on…”

Then 1 day I was collecting mail from the mailbox, I saw a letter from India, it has a photo attached to it. The photo of my son, his wife and my grand-daughter, they were smiling, my son was holding his daughter in 1 hand and the basket of Herbal Baby Care Kit in other, the flowers were decorated in a vase. I read the letter, “Thanks Maa for this amazing gift, we loved it, and I am sorry for being rude to you whenever you were with didi, but now I can understand, because I’m also a father of the daughter. I can’t even imagine what you went through when you raised us effortlessly without a single scratch on your forehead. My daughter is just a few days older now but I can understand what you felt when didi was alone or sick, And I feel even more proud that I’m your son; you treated both of us equally, you were never partial to me or didi, ever.  Yes, I want you to be with me, right now, but I’m not gonna force you or anything because now I understand the importance of the daughter, so take your time. Miss you mom, and thanks for being the way you are…!”

I was numb, speechless for a while; these are the small moments in life which matters a lot. You don’t have to find them; they are already with you just turn your head a little.

A gift to remember by Send Pyar

“Honey, Please try to understand my situation here! You know I can’t be there at this point in time. Please have some faith in me; after all, I’m doing this for us, our bright future... Listen na baby, if only there was the slightest chance for me to be with you on our 1st wedding anniversary, I could have tried, But….. “Bam...

& she banged the phone on the table; thank god it’s not broken yet. She had every right to be mad at him; after all, it was their 1st wedding anniversary. He left for Melbourne right after marriage, gifting the broken dreams in her eyes. He wasn’t ready to leave her alone just after marriage but not every time opportunity knocks the door. He had to leave and she had to be alone for a whole year.

The ’Honeymoon’ period of their marriage was over within a blink of the eye, He sunk in a chair, lost in her thoughts, remembering each  & every moment he had shared with her during their courtship period.  After the engagement, he had brought the world into her palms with the promises of unconditional love & support. Those long drives, late night chats, and his wild goose chase for her favourite & rare indigo orchids. AAhh… those orchids, he remembered the day, that stressful day. It was her Birthday, actually 1st birthday after the engagement, and she wanted something exotic.

The knock on the cabin door brought him back to the existing world from her thoughts. It was his friend Nilesh his only buddy from his Homeland, he enquired whether something wrong or what, explained the entire scenario to Nilesh. After the endless discussions and planning, they agreed on the glorious bouquet of indigo orchid flowers, Ornamental Diamond & Pearl Necklace Set, Her favourite pineapple cake with cherry toppings & Rs. 2000 PANTALOONS GOLD GIFT CARD. Now the biggest task was remaining; execution of the plan. So he logged in on Send Pyar Australia and added the product to the cart, the procedure was easy & smooth, so he was finished in no time.

He was restless; he called his mother in India, & told her about his plan, she was happy to help. He didn’t have to wait long or harass customer service, His gift reached on time and in expected packaging. His mother received the gift and hides it as per his instructions. Now he was waiting for the sun to rise because his first surprise was revealing in the morning. 

After performing morning rituals, when she bent to seek the blessings of the mother in law, her ‘Maa’ gave her 1st surprise, she handed her gift voucher from pantaloons, it was attached with the 1st letter from her husband with a big sorry and wedding anniversary wishes. Then they both went shopping for her 1st-anniversary gift & bought a beautiful dress.  When they returned, the house was totally transformed into the party place; her close family & friends were waiting for her, she wore the new dress, her beloved hubby has gifted her, then another surprise delicious pineapple flavored cake, featuring cherry toppings, she felt cherished, her happiness reached cloud nine after seeing the indigo orchid flowers.

After the cake cutting ceremony, someone switched off the lights, everyone was confused. Then comes the big reveal, her father in law started the projector, and there was a video message from her husband, “I know we planned this day way too different for us, & I’m  sorry I couldn’t be there with you at this moment but believe me;  I am making a world for us, and I’m glad t

hat you are my life partner on this journey, After all, you are the diamond of my life, and now its time for my final surprise for this night, Diamond & Pearl Necklace set for my diamond. “ The crowd applauses hard, her eyes welled up after seeing the necklace set.

He wasn’t there at that time with her but she can feel his presence. It really was a gift to remember.  

Sometimes Gifts speaks, when words go mute

Appreciation makes a difference. When someone is giving their heart & flesh but still not getting the results does not mean that their efforts are useless. Just like our parents, they worked hard for us & instead of appreciating their efforts we become stonehearted. Then the communication is reduced by their side also, but why? Maybe they felt less motivated that’s why their courage to connect gets decreased. We live very far from our motherland just to prove ourselves, just to prove that we can achieve something, something that is not great but something that our parents felt proud of. Sometimes we can not express our emotions or our loneliness in words. They keep reminding us about our worth, about the unconditional love they have for us. & again we get into the mute zone. I tried searching many ways to come out of that mute zone, then 1 day my friend told me about this amazing website Send Pyar Australia, I thought about giving it a try, & believe me I didn’t utter a word but my mom understood what I wanted to say. The Gift wasn’t important, but the feeling & emotions were priceless.

That day I learned something about human relations, you don’t have to hold it too tight in your fist, just hold a finger. Just like your Mum held yours when you were a toddler & trying to walk.

It has been 3 weeks since my mom has spoken to me. As is she was angry, she wanted to do give me my space as I asked her to do, the pathetic feeling of guilt was taking over my guts, I made her do it, I was the one who slammed her when she was calling me to ask about health and about my dinner. I said, “I am in a whole new country mom, our timings don’t match. I have a job to do; I’m here for my career.” That time I forgot about how she fought with everyone in society to send me to Australia for my career.  Being a single parent, it was obvious to panic when I couldn’t receive her call at midnight.

I hammered Vinita’s head with questions. What should I do to make everything right; normal just like it was before I smashed it. She came up with this site, Send Pyar Australia. I was confused first, how this site gonna solve my issues with my mom? It was the biggest question. Then I started going through it & realized that it might help. Whilst I was going through the site I came across this Golden Pearl & Diamond Bracelet, I remembered as a kid I used to wear mom’s jewelry & when she mockingly asked me to return it, I used to reply that someday I’ll buy the same for her. She used to smile fondly, it’s time to bring that smile to her lips again. So first I checked about price; it was in my budget. I was not sure it will ship to my hometown

. So I checked again: they did ship to my hometown. I was on cloud nine by this thought. & I ordered.

The bracelet reached on time, carefully packed. That night I received one international call, when I picked, there was complete silence, not a single word was exchanged & we both understood. Some bonds are beyond the linguistic necessities.  Thank you Send Pyar.